Our society

It is said that a society can emotionally destroy a person. Everyone knows about the evil of our society but isn't it true that we make these societies. Yes, we people create societies. Society can only judge a person by a his/her outer looks or actions but not their inner looks. All the people in this world has once being broken in their life. Everyone of us try to hide the pain or broken feeling by putting a mask of fakeness like a fake smile or laugh. But have any of us ever noticed it ? If not ,why is that we never noticed it ? We have never seen it cause we have never looked past those fake smiles to see pain in those eyes. Even when it was our dear one's we never had time for it. But I firmly believe that when we can see a person past his or her mask of fakeness, only then we can judge a person only then are we different from the society.

Haven't we all seen many suicides of teens in Newspapers ? But the thing is that have we ever thought of what is the reason that made them choose death ? No, none of us have done it cause we never had time. But we conclude each of these cases as some immature act. Nowadays parents always compel and expect more from their children cause there should never be questions from society. Parents are more concerned of more what society thinks than about their children. Teens get frustrated easily and of course the low marks make them think of death than facing their parents.

There was once a time when girls were put on blame for each and everything by the society. if a girl can't dance and sing was tagged weird. If  a girl wears a modern dress then doesn't have any sense about what to wear. If a girl talks to a guy for the reason can be anything then that girl is tagged bad influence. This is how society always judged girls. Even now they judge us but we are always too blind to not to see  it.

If a person is outspoken or silent then he or she's considered rude but If the person speaks a lot then he or she is considered attention seeker. But could be about the part why they became silent or outspoken? It can be their insecurities or their past that made them silent but we never gave a chance to think about it. If he or she talks a lot then it can because he/she never got attention from his/her parents. But we never thought deeply enough to understand a person's character cause we never had time for it, not to forget we were too selfish to think about others. we would always conclude it at by blaming them for what they are. Girls could never come up even when they were abused cause they were blamed in the society. Isn't it because of the selfish feeling of the society ?

It is said that emotional pain is more powerful than physical pain, to numb the emotional pain one  should feel the physical pain. There are people who are emotionally broken by the society. To hide that pain they physically  cut themselves or suicide. Therefore it is understood that a society can kill a person. We have thought only about corruption, girl education etc as the major threats of our country. No one thought about the evil society that judges us cruelly as a threat when we cant change the society or ourselves from judging others then how can we stop corruption that's all over the country. When you can't change yourselves how will you change the country? But I believe that when we can accept ourselves  and when god accepts us only then we are right.  Why should we be bothered about the acceptance of the society when we can accept ourselves? When we do something that's right according to our conscience then why should we worry about what the society thinks ?